Great Conversation Topics For Dates part 1

There are really two very different (andimportant) aspects to the "conversations withwomen" topic:1. The HOW.2. The WHAT. "THE HOW..." Most guys want to know "what to talk about"with women. It only makes sense that you should talk aboutthings that women are interested in... right? Well... partially. It is actually FAR MORE IMPORTANT to talk aboutwhatever topic you're talking about in the RIGHTWAY.

In other words, if you don't understand HOW tocarry on a conversation that creates
ATTRACTION,then it really won't matter WHAT you talk about...because the woman you're
talking to won't FEELanything towards you. The HOW of conversation includes (but, is notlimited to):- Your body language- Eye contact- The Cocky & Funny style of communicating- Flirting- Sending mixed messages- Directing the conversation- Dealing with common questions and topics ...and many other things. My point is that if you're running into a lotof "uncomfortable silences", nervousness, andother usual challenges, then you probably need toget the HOW handled before the WHAT. "THE WHAT..." With that said, there are several topics thatare GREAT to discuss with women. But instead of just giving them to you, I wantyou to do yourself a favor and THINK for a minute. What topics do women PAY to hear about? Hint: Cosmo magazine, romance novels, soapoperas, nighttime dramas, the fashion channel...etc. If you think about it, the answer to thisquestion is rather obvious. For whatever reason, WOMEN tend to LOVE:- Drama- Conflict- Romance- Famous people and their lives So... it's really quite easy to enjoy aconversation with a woman about these topics. Here are a few ideas:

1.Find an interesting looking group of people andguess what's going on. Look around you, and find a couple sitting at atable that looks like they're on their first date. Then, start making fun of how the guy isacting, how he's dressed, his posture, orwhatever. Talk about how the woman is thinkingthat he's a dork and how he's not getting any, nomatter how many compliments he gives her. Analyzing what's going on with a close group ofothers is big fun, and women love it.

2.Make fun of someone famous. Talk about how a super model is too skinny, orhow Ben Affleck can only date women namedJennifer. All you have to do is read a few gossipmagazines to get all kinds of great stuff to makefun of. It's fun, it's funny, and it's a great way totalk like you're all that

3.Talk about other people's love lives. Talk about the problems that others are goingthrough when it comes to love and romance, thenvolunteer completely ridiculous theories aboutwhat's going on. Mention a friend you had who broke up with hisgirlfriend because she gained weight, then afteryou've told the story, make up a random theoryabout how women who gain weight are actuallylesbians. But, make sure it's funny, whatever you invent

Oh, by the way... Topics to avoid: Rape, kidnapping, stalking,death, chess, computers, comic books, Star Warsand your secret love: wrestling. NEVER talk about topics that might really freaka woman out, or topics that make you look like thebiggest loser alive, especially in the beginning.